Friday, April 28, 2006

Right Reasons!!!



Today I read a article by Dr. Gopalakrishnan who succeeds Mr. Ratan Tata as Chairman of Tata Sons Ltd.,the holding company for many of the Tata blue chips like Tata Steel, TataMotors, Tata Power, Tata Chemicals, Voltas etc.
The article is titled “Deserve before you Desire”.
Some lines from the article in the “complete the story” format that people are so familiar with from childhood…

“The grass isn't always greener on the other side!!.............. Move from one job to another, but only for the right reasons……passé to work for one company for a sufficiently long period…………..getting a 200% hike…….going to send me abroad………Then, I look around at all the people who are considered successful today and who have reached the top ……..most of these people are the ones who stuck to the company, ground their heels and worked their way to the top……….there always comes a time for moving in most organizations……right reasons, rather than the superficial ones…….no company recruits for charity…….people leave their organizations because they are unhappy……do I come to work to be happy in the truest sense?....No".

I am sure you must have got the gist of the article by now. Don’t move from a company unless you have the right reasons. But, the point is, what are these right reasons?
a) Lack of Challenges?
b) Lack of work ethics or bad working environment?
c) Money has been termed as a superficial reason. Is it really that simple to ignore money?
d) Saturation level reached?

Well these were some thoughts that came to my mind. One interesting point the article makes is about the fact that we don’t come to work to be happy. This is Strictly Business as Godfather would have put it. It’s not about happiness or un-happiness. This line has influenced me a lot today and am sure it will change my outlook towards professional life.
Finally as Dr. Gopalakrishnan puts it….
Work hard so that you have the right to desire….
Work Hard so that you “Deserve to Desire”…

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Talking to my Alter Ego...



Me: Why are some dayz bad and some good?
Antara: Stop cribbing now!!! You always cry…. Just because you didn’t like the way some conversation ended last night…rather morning…You didn’t allow me to sleep also, and just because your vehicle ran out of fuel you are crying?
Me:: But Antara, whom should I ask other than you? My ego is too large… I can’t ask nobody….
Antara: What do you want me to do?
Me:: Give me some answers…
Antara: The problem with you my dear is that you have selective memory. Lately you have been remembering only bad things and nothing pleasant. Why do want the answers? I mean No Day is good or Bad… Its just how you react to situations. You have been reacting very badly now a dayz…
Me:: What can I do… Everything is going haywire!!
Antara:: See sweetheart… Just think about it… Is it really that bad? Is it justified you hurting yourself for things not under your control?
Me:: But I am not hurting myself…..
Antara:: I haven’t slept for almost months now… You are always talking about something that is not worth giving the amount of thought you give it… I have tried consoling you so many times… but you have taken help of some things… I can’t mention it also…
Me:: I know Antara, I have been treating you rather badly.
Antara:: Stop cribbing again my dear. Who knows you better than me? Your affection for yourself and thus me has reduced. Once that is back… You will be back my dear…
Me:: But it is possible?
Antara:: Impossible was never in your dictionary! Get back to being what you are… The Narcissist… My Lover!!! My Worshipper!
Me:: I am trying and I need your help… You are all that I have…
Antara:: I am alive only because of you and I cease to exist the day you stop being what you are!!!
Me:: I Love you!!! Let’s start our Love Story again!!!

P.S. Antara is the person whom I talk to when I am down. My Inner Self with whom I have lost touch, and am trying to re-establish the connection!!!